Swear to god, some guys are terrified that girls are faking common interests to impress them and act really hostile towards anyone they even SUSPECT of doing such a thing
but then they turn around and fake a whole friendship in the hopes of getting sex out of girls, and get mad at them when it doesn’t work
and they super do not see the irony in that
I think this is a fucked up way to behave no matter who you are. It hurts when you fall for someone and find out months/years later that they were not actually into you as much as they were just scared to be alone or something. Finding out you really have nothing in common with your closest person is the loneliest feeling in the world.